A Very Rainy Sunday

I taught a mistake to somebody about the first day, second day and last day of the week. Since, I am already working, I really thought that Monday is the first day of the week and Sunday becomes the last day since it was known to be a weekend. But the real answer can be found at the calendar, that Sunday is still the first day and Saturday is the last day. I was humiliated with what I had made but I learned from it. Not all things that I know according to what I see and what I feel is correct, you need to understand why is that happening. You need to look over to that situation and know the real point why do you feel that way, a feeling like you don't exist, or not important.

Like for friendship. I may say that when it comes to friendship, there's no such thing as a correct, or perfect or happy kind of friendship. Sometimes, you need to face some trials that will surely test your patience to each other. Trials like trust, love and helpfulness; these things can measure the depth of your friendship. One example would be when the time that you are lost and needing somebody to lean on, there might be a time that the person you were expecting could not be able to go. For instance, busy with work or busy with other things or the issue of forgetfulness might also be the reason why is it happening. Now, a question might flash in your mind, "do I think this person, which is my best friend considers me as an important one?"

In a circle of friends, there are different kinds of personalities. Therefore, in a circle of friends, there are different kinds of friends that you will encounter almost everyday of your lives. One could be a very loyal friend, one could be a very funny friend, a very fashionable friend, a very blatant friend, a very sensitive friend, a very insensitive friend and a very generous friend. Those kinds of personalities can really blend and become a barkada. What should be done for a person belonging to a circle of friend is to accept all of them for who they really are. Not all people are the same, they are made uniquely and strongly so you must accept what they are, what they do and what they have.

My definition of a best friend is he or she is the person you look up most when you feel happy and sad. He or she is the first person that comes to your mind when you deal with problems. He or she is the first person that will greet you when there's a special occasion like birthdays and Christmas. He or she is the first person that knows your deep, dark secrets. And he or she is the person that understands you whatever and whoever you are. I can tell to myself that I am such a loyal best friend and whether you like it or not, I am always at your side in times of trouble. But sometimes, a best friend can forget. A best friend can focus to other things other than you. Yes, it breaks the heart and you might think your best friend does not consider you important. Of course it should not be that way because it is a belief that when you bound to become together as the best of friends, it will never break and it will never stop from its starting point. Just like when you fall in love, it seems that having a best friend also because of the destiny.

I love all of my friends and this writing is about them. I don't know what they're thinking or saying about me but what's important is that they know me too well and they know me too much. We don't a best friend contract for the things you do both and if failed, might lead to fights. It's like this: you both know in your minds and in your hearts that you both consider yourselves as the best of friends. Whether you belong in one group or just the two or three of you, if you love and feel important to each other, that's the best thing God gave you as a gift.

Understand your friends! Have fun with your friends! And most of all, love your friends! They are the best gift God gave you!

Toodles!